Exploring Duty and Love: A Personal Reflection on Life Choices
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Chapter 1: The Concept of Duty
There exists a profound sentiment known as duty. Many believe that this sense of obligation can propel a social group—be it large or small—forward. For instance, in military service, the feeling of duty can help individuals endure hardships and cope with the constraints imposed upon them while serving their country. However, this motivation often fades quickly. Once the obligation to their homeland is fulfilled, soldiers tend to rush back home to embrace their "freedom," showing little inclination to return.
What accounts for this phenomenon? Why does the sense of duty resonate in specific instances but falter in others? Consider a child's obligation to their parents for the care and upbringing they received. Does this feeling manifest consistently? If we swap duty for love, is that a more favorable approach? But what if duty is seen as a limitation on freedom, compelling individuals to act against their true wishes? How do individuals accumulate such a burden of non-financial debts that they feel obligated to repay? Is this sense of obligation light or heavy? Does it nurture a positive mindset or lead to feelings of depression? These questions can be explored across various aspects of life where individuals operate out of duty.
While I acknowledge that a sense of duty can be vital in accomplishing certain tasks, the choice remains yours: love or duty?
Section 1.1: The Nature of Love
Some might dismiss the notion of love as overly sentimental or even nonsensical. Yet, it remains irrelevant what critics say. Cherished activities, environments, families, places, and ultimately, life itself can be experienced differently. As the saying goes, you should not regret the years you have lived. Life should flow naturally, infused with love and warmth.
“In the military, you must fulfill your duty!” — a superior once told me. This instilled in me feelings of pressure and a desire to complete my obligations swiftly to avoid the weight of debt. One might argue that love has no place in the army, and they would be correct. The primary goal is to serve for a year and return home safely. If, during that time, one can acquire new skills, friendships, and valuable experiences, then that year has not been wasted, and the situation is not as grim.
Section 1.2: The Role of Gratitude
Returning to the theme of the military, I enjoy posing questions. What if, alongside love, there is gratitude? I view gratitude as a beneficial emotion we offer to others in recognition of their kindness, which brings warmth to our hearts. This feeling can be effectively paired with love.
You can express love and gratitude not just to others but also to yourself. Each morning, try saying to yourself, “I love you, [your name], and I thank you for being the most important person in my life.” It may seem odd to speak to oneself, but it holds truth. The closest person to you is, indeed, yourself. Is it wrong to love yourself? Is it selfish to be thankful for your existence or for the good you bring to others? No, it isn't. Embracing self-love teaches others how to love you in return, while expressing gratitude can foster appreciation from those around you.
Chapter 2: The Freedom to Choose
This video titled "Exposing Israel's Genocide to the World: 'It's Not Work, It's A Duty'" explores the themes of duty and moral responsibility.
The second video, "Call of Duty Feels HORRIBLE Compared To XDefiant... (Activision Needs To Rethink Their Plans)," delves into the gaming industry's expectations around duty and engagement.
Ultimately, the choice is yours: act out of duty or embrace love and other positive emotions. If you feel anger, allow yourself to experience it without guilt; instead, thank yourself for your emotional complexity and the freedom to express who you are.
Everything shared in this article reflects my personal thoughts and experiences concerning life perspectives. Your path is yours to choose, and no one else can dictate it. Remember, one’s freedom ends where another’s begins. I merely offered a glimpse into my own mindset and reflections.