Chapter 1: The Essence of Being Sexy

What does it mean to be sexy, and is it a trait exclusive to the conventionally beautiful? In a world plagued by challenges like wars, economic hardships, and sports disappointments, this question lingers. Though somewhat rhetorical, it sparked the inception of my platform, Sexy Psyche, back in December 2019.

Initially, my focus was on crafting erotic narratives; however, I came to realize that sexiness transcends mere storytelling and physical intimacy. The definition I’m developing—a G. Charles definition—will unfold in stages. At its core, I believe that sexiness fosters a sense of self-worth and elicits positive interactions from others.

Imagine a cashier in a grocery store diligently scanning your items. With warm eyes, a genuine smile, and a compassionate tone, they can ease your stress, even if just for a brief moment.

The feeling of comfort provided by these simple gestures can be incredibly sexy. Why? Because it creates a dialogue and opens pathways to connections. In a fleeting grocery store encounter, that interaction may only last a mere 45 seconds before you exit into the wider world.

Now, envision applying that same approachable demeanor within the context of a long-term relationship. Over time, we inevitably witness our partners during difficult moments—be it stress from work or emotional struggles stemming from past events. Here, sexiness—embodied through inviting eye contact, a warm smile, and a calming voice—can alleviate some of those tensions.

It’s important to clarify that being sexy doesn’t equate to being self-absorbed or vain. It’s not about vanity; rather, it’s about creating a foundation for meaningful dialogue that can fortify relationships, whether they are short-lived or enduring.

Boost your sexy psyche by allowing your smile and your eyes to express your feelings. I plan to share one or two tips on enhancing your sexiness each week.

The first video titled "What is YOUR definition of being SEXY?" explores personal interpretations of sexiness and its implications.

Chapter 2: Invitation to Share Your Thoughts

I’m eager to hear from you! If you have insights on how to enhance relationships through sexiness, consider contributing to this publication.

Whether you have a subtle or deeply erotic short story that resonates with themes of smiles and flirting, or a sexy poem you wish to share, I’d love to see it.

I’m looking for:

1. Original pieces ranging from 250 to over 1,000 words that discuss how sexiness can enhance well-being.
2. If you’ve been published elsewhere, please provide a brief introduction (2-3 sentences) and a link to the original piece, though I reserve the right to decide on linking.

Feel free to reach out via email at [email protected] with "Sexy Psyche" in the subject line. Please attach your submission as a Word document or share a Google Docs link.

I’m on the verge of establishing a Submissions page, and I hope to feature your stellar work soon. Remember to proofread before sending, and ensure any photos used are properly credited.

The second video, "What Does Sexy Even MEAN?! | ipsy," dives into the evolving definitions of sexiness in contemporary culture.