Chapter 1: Reflections on Regrets

Regrets are a universal experience, and I am no exception. I hope that sharing my thoughts will assist you as you navigate your 20s, or help someone else do the same. Life is a relentless journey that continues to unfold, regardless of whether we feel prepared for it or not. Remember, it is never too late to embark on a new endeavor.

I have always been curious and have never limited myself to just one hobby for an extended period. There were many pursuits I wanted to chase in my 25th year, but I often hesitated, thinking I was “too old” for them. Now, looking back, I wish I could have urged my younger self to pursue those passions immediately. Starting something new at an “older” age is nothing to be ashamed of; age is merely a number that holds little significance in the grand scheme of things.

As Shia LaBeouf famously said, “Just Do It.” If you want to hear this motivational message, check out the following video:

Chapter 2: Embrace Your Worth

There was a time when I settled for mediocrity, convincing myself that being "average" was sufficient. I held back from pushing my limits out of fear of failure. This mindset became a toxic presence that gnawed at my spirit.

During my lowest moments in my 20s—feeling isolated, far from home, and struggling to meet basic needs—I found myself accepting far less than I deserved. I rarely allowed myself to envision a better life, such as flying first class or achieving significant milestones. I often thought, “Why even bother imagining it? It’s never going to happen.” Reflecting on that now brings a smile to my face; I was so naive.

Never underestimate your potential. With determination, you can achieve great things.

Chapter 3: Connect with New People

The prospect of meeting new people can be intimidating, especially for someone with an introverted nature like mine. I often preferred to stay at home on weekends, confined to my familiar circle. However, as I ventured out, I encountered many new individuals who enriched my life in unexpected ways. They introduced me to perspectives beyond my own culture and background, broadening my horizons.

Chapter 4: Let Go of Future Anxieties

I used to be troubled by the unpredictability of life. My attempts to foresee the future only caused me stress. While it’s wise to prepare for potential challenges, I wish I had learned to relax and enjoy the moment. Taking calculated risks and being present won’t harm you.

Time is linear; it won’t reverse. One day, you’ll realize your past has shaped your present. Perhaps everything happens for a reason. Without those experiences, I wouldn’t be the person I am today, nor would I be where I am now. I’m grateful for those moments, and I firmly believe that life is filled with purpose.