What I've Been Learning 🧠

We exist in a vast ocean of information, and without a proper filter, we risk becoming overwhelmed. I've been utilizing Socrates' Triple Filter Test to assess the information I allow into my mind:

1. Is it true?
2. Is it good?
3. Is it useful?

Let me elaborate. While it's essential to consume factual content (step one), the significance of the second and third steps resonates deeply with me. The world is full of true yet detrimental information. By asking whether something is both "good" and "useful," we can avoid drowning in negativity and anxiety. Staying updated on current events is not admirable if it leads to mental distress. Instead, we should seek content that passes this triad of filters, ensuring that what we feed our minds is not only true but also beneficial for our growth.

Is it just me, or does your brain feel a bit sharper today?

What I'm Reflecting On 🧐

You might think I’m somewhat arrogant based on this article's title, but allow me to clarify. My journey began in middle school, where I sported a Justin Bieber-esque hairstyle. With great hair comes great responsibility! Alongside my fabulous hair, I emulated the style of Turner Weber, the epitome of cool at my school. Let’s just say that this involved oversized tees and skinny jeans—fashion choices unique to those of us from ski towns.

From an early age, I became adept at blending into various social circles, which led to a degree of popularity. My ability to mimic what was "in" and my carefully styled hair helped me gain attention from the opposite sex—well, as much as an awkward, self-conscious teenager could.

This experience boosted my confidence and set the stage for the story I want to share with you today. Of course, there were many girls who were completely out of my league and didn’t even notice me. But for those who did, I often managed to win them over by wearing the right social mask.

Fast forward to now, where I strive to be my authentic self, sans any masks. Things have been going well, but recently, I received a text that read, "I think I mainly feel a friendship vibe between us." My ego took quite a hit, requiring some serious reconstruction!

While this was a tough experience, it imparted a valuable lesson best summed up by Dita Von Teese: "You can be a juicy ripe peach and there will still be someone who doesn't like peaches." In other words, you may not appeal to everyone, and that’s perfectly acceptable. In fact, it’s a wonderful realization. Not being everyone's preference signifies that you are courageous enough to embrace your true self.

Perhaps it also means I need to refine my personality—still determining where I stand on that spectrum, although my mom insists I have a sparkling personality!

Quote of the Week 📜

"The irony is that this 'fake it till you make it' tactic is the exact opposite of how truly successful people live. They live with authentic vulnerability because they know that the world always connects more with your grit than your shine. They might show up for the shine, but they will stay because of your grit." ~ Joshua Medcalf

What I'm Reading 📖

Currently, I'm diving into Kevin Kelly's "103 Bits of Advice." Here are some favorites:

• Anything you say before the word "but" does not count.
• Never work for someone you don’t aspire to become.
• Efficiency is overrated; taking breaks is undervalued.
• Your growth as a conscious being is measured by the number of uncomfortable conversations you are willing to engage in.
• Don’t wait for the storm to pass; dance in the rain.
• You will be judged on how well you treat those who can do nothing for you.
• It's thrilling to be exceptionally polite to rude strangers.

What I'm Writing ✍️

I’m crafting a poem reflecting on the nuances of modern dating. If you enjoy poetry, follow my musings on Medium!