Why Marrying Wealth Is Preferable to Starting a Side Hustle
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The Pursuit of Wealth
Who among us doesn't aspire to wealth? Whether it's for comfort or lifestyle, the desire for financial abundance is universal. While the pursuit of riches can often lead individuals down challenging paths, there are simpler routes to financial success. One such route? Marrying someone affluent.
The Side Hustle Trend
In recent years, the allure of side hustles has captivated many, promising additional income and financial freedom. Many jumped on this trend, driven by dreams and aspirations. However, for numerous individuals, the outcome has been disappointing.
Why is that? As many may recognize, the reality of launching a side hustle often diverges from the ideal. Rather than pursuing this venture out of passion, many merely replicated the experiences of others, overlooking the hard work, patience, and stress involved. The singular focus on wealth often led to their downfall.
Contrasting Options
If your primary goal is monetary gain, consider this: marrying someone wealthy is at least four times more advantageous than attempting to create a successful side hustle.
The Trade-Offs of Marriage
It's true that marrying someone may come with certain compromises. You may need to be available for your partner, plan a shared future, and support one another through life's challenges. Yet, this exchange often results in mutual love and support, and if both partners respect each other's needs, a fulfilling relationship can flourish.
On the other hand, the challenges of building a side hustle can escalate quickly. Initially, motivation may carry you through, but as the journey continues, the isolation of entrepreneurship can feel overwhelming. It’s akin to parenting alone—nobody truly understands the hurdles you face, nor can they assist you, even if they wish to.
While your ultimate goal might be freedom, a side hustle often demands sacrifices, including social outings and personal time. In contrast, a wealthy partner can afford you the luxury of spontaneity and enjoyment.
The Hours You Keep
With a wealthy spouse, the option to reduce your work hours—or even stop working altogether—becomes viable. You may choose to work simply to socialize or meet new people. If you encounter dissatisfaction at work, you can easily seek something new without the financial pressure that often accompanies side hustles.
In contrast, launching a side hustle often erases the concept of set working hours. Work becomes an all-consuming endeavor, with tasks extending far beyond traditional business hours. Issues can arise unexpectedly, and the burden of solving them falls solely on you.
The Quest for Happiness
The adage that "happiness is a journey, not a destination" is often repeated, but what does it truly mean? Many believe that finding joy in your work is essential to happiness. However, the crux lies in how we allocate our time.
Greater financial resources can significantly enhance your leisure time, leading to improved happiness. If you can achieve passive income, your quality of life can elevate dramatically.
Thus, the two primary avenues to financial independence are clear: marry someone wealthy—ideally someone you love—or embark on the lengthy journey of establishing a side hustle that may take years to yield similar rewards.
The Stress of Productivity
Marriage does not necessitate constant productivity or motivation. You don't have to muster the drive to engage with your partner daily. However, a side hustle demands consistent motivation and productivity. When motivation wanes, the burden of responsibility becomes heavier.
In summary, the benefits of marrying someone affluent far outweigh the stresses associated with building a side hustle.
Final Thoughts
You can choose to marry a wealthy partner and enjoy financial stability or dedicate your life to establishing a side hustle. The choice is yours. While marrying for wealth may seem like a shortcut, it’s essential to remember that fulfillment comes in many forms.
Even though marrying for wealth may present a less stressful path, I personally wouldn't trade my dreams for comfort. Pursuing passion may not lead to vast riches, but the rewards can be immeasurable.
(Keep in mind, this article is written with a touch of irony. Wealth should not be the sole reason for marriage!)
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