Embrace Your Inner Main Character: Lessons from Peaky Blinders
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Understanding Main Character Energy
There's something captivating about spending Friday evenings with my partner, engrossed in binge-watching various TV shows. Recently, we've been alternating between Peaky Blinders and Florida Man on Netflix. During one of our viewing sessions, my partner remarked that Mike Valentine, the protagonist of Florida Man, lacked what one might call “main character energy.” Initially, I dismissed the comment, but after watching the second episode of Peaky Blinders, I was struck by the presence of Tommy Shelby, a man who confidently forges his own destiny.
For those unfamiliar, Tommy Shelby, portrayed by Cillian Murphy, is the astute and magnetic leader of the Peaky Blinders gang, embodying what it means to have main character energy. But what exactly is this energy?
While both Tommy and Mike are protagonists within their respective narratives, only one fully grasps his worth, boldly navigates his journey, and skillfully battles against adversity. Main character energy involves recognizing your own value and taking charge of your life’s narrative.
In contrast, Mike from Florida Man often finds himself constrained by debt, poor choices, and perhaps a troubled past, leading him to make decisions against his desires. This makes him relatable, as we all face challenges that can make us feel powerless. Yet, we can’t help but admire those who persevere through daunting obstacles to achieve their aspirations. Deep down, each of us longs to realize our full potential and assume the role of the main character in our own lives.
How to Cultivate Main Character Energy
So, how do we harness that main character energy and seize control of our narratives? Here are a few insights inspired by Peaky Blinders:
Know Who You Are.
At the outset of Peaky Blinders, Tommy rides through the barren streets of Birmingham on a black horse, exuding confidence and authority. He is a Shelby, and that name carries weight. Understanding your identity is crucial to becoming the protagonist of your story. If your life were a book, how would the author depict you? Reflect on your background, qualities, and how others perceive you. If you’re uncertain about your identity, take some time for introspection and consider these questions.
Don’t Fear Solitude.
Despite being surrounded by family and allies, Tommy often operates as a lone wolf. When faced with pivotal choices, he rarely seeks counsel from others. While solitude is often viewed negatively, it has its advantages. To truly discover who you are, spend time with your own thoughts. Understand your fears and learn to accept yourself; this self-acceptance can help you overcome various challenges.
Stay True to Your Principles.
Although Tommy leads a notorious gang, he values life, shaped by his experiences as a war hero. He acts with purpose and never resorts to violence without cause. He is principled yet pragmatic. Consider your own values; awareness of them enables you to make decisions that resonate with your true self.
Chart Your Own Course.
There's a saying about the road less traveled: “Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.” Often, fear of failure or societal expectations can deter us from pursuing our dreams. To become the main character in your own narrative, you may need to carve your own path, even if it means making difficult choices or disappointing others along the way.
Embrace Risk.
Tommy Shelby exemplifies calculated risk-taking. His experiences as a war hero have made him fearless, but he doesn’t engage in reckless behavior. To embody main character energy, you should be willing to step beyond your comfort zone and take informed risks. This could involve exploring a new career, launching a business, investing in education, or embracing significant personal transformation.
While these are just a few steps toward becoming the main character of your life, the most critical takeaway is that you must be the storyteller, the one behind the scenes, steering the narrative. You hold the camera and direct the scenes of your life.
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Florence Wanjiku is a writer, poet, and educator focused on self-development, purpose, and wellness. Explore more of her insights on her blog, A Quiet Life.